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Anything and everything you need to know about your self-talk
Feeling negative doesn’t necessarily mean your self-talk is overtly negative. It could also mean that you are not aware of your positive self-talk like self re-affirming and self-managing thoughts. You can use the self-talk pattern test (https://www.konvos.me/selftalkpattern)to see how your self-talk is at any point in time.
While positive reaffirmation can have a short-term impact on your emotions, on the long-term it's effects are not proven. Your self-talk is an aggregation of your experiences and while repeating positive statments can have an effect, the effect does not become permanent without emotional exploration and self-talk reframing.
1. Psychologist Dr. Thomas Brinthaupt has identified four different dimensions to the way we talk to ourselves inside our minds.
2. Storytelling is found in research studies to be a powerful resource to process our emotions and achieve wellbeing
3. Negative self-talk is found by research studies to increase in frequency during times of stress, crisis and natural disasters
4. James W Pennebakser, a psychologist at the University of Texas at Austin, has shown that storytelling can help mend lives broken by trauma.
Today, we try to understand and manage our mental health by tracking our emotions. While emotions can be useful, they don’t give you the entire picture. Our self-talk pattern is the engine that drives our emotions and actions. By measuring and tracking your self-talk, you can get a stronger hold on your emotions and behaviour.
Negative generalizations are a result of life experiences, trauma, and stress turning our attention excessively inwards. We look into ourselves for improvement constantly because we are not able to control things outside us. When this self-talk pattern becomes excessive, you start feeling negative about yourself all the time.

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